賢妻? 閑妻? 嫌妻?

由於紀先生怕我在家太無聊, 一直要求我每天要寫一封英文信給他.

內容不限,

但是孕婦個性懶散, 一直拖到上禮拜才寫了第一封信.

結果紀先生說" 老婆, 你下次可不可以寫短一點, 我改的好累喔"

我把紀先生幫我改過的地方, 重新再打過一遍.

Dear, this question has been stayed in my head for a long time. We have also discussed with it many times, but still didn't come up with good solutions. Hence, this will be our topic today. Before I got pregnant, I was thinking to get a job in Tainan first. However, heaven dose not abide by wishes people

 Recent economical recession has a great influence on the global job market. Many companies and factories were closed and plenty of labors were laid off. Unemployment rate is getting higher every day. It was difficult for me to find a job in that period. Even though I find one, the paid is not good enough. At that time, I found out i was pregnant. You was so excited and said that i didn't need to look for a job but take care of myself. Time flies, it will be twp months before our baby is born. We need to face more and more problems.

Money is always a big issue. According to my study, cost for half-day nanny care is around NT15,000 to NT18,000, excluding diapers , baby food and related bonus. From the book, professional nanny knows how to teach babies in modern way. On the other hand, it is hard for us to trust a stranger who will take care of our baby. Moreover, how to find a certified nanny near our place is a problem.

The second solution is to find Day-care center. Day-care for ten hours costs around NT15,000 to 20,000. One concern is that our baby may get infected from other sick kids in the center. In addition, most of baby-care centers are private except one public in Taipei city. Besides, it is hard to get fair reference cost for baby-care centers. One good thing is that our kid will have more opportunities to interact with others and may learn the meaning of share.

The last choice is that I become your son's nanny. You don't need to pay me, but I will hate you. As far as i am concerned, I have never thought about to be a housewife. Since I have no idea how a housewife's life will be, I am so worried that I need to count on you for my whole life. Once you don't love me ore have an affair, I will be very pathetic. Meanwhile, you always encourage me to work outside and say that I am lack of social and working experience. Once  I decide to stay at home as nanny, i can't imagine what will happen on me.

That's it. I love you.